Long-distance relationships are tough. Whether it’s because of work, graduate school or any number of life items that pop up right around the time you want to get serious with someone, being together apart is sometimes necessary. That doesn’t make it any easier, though, and staying connected can be a challenge.
We all know damn well at this point just how harsh separation from people can be mentally, emotionally and especially physically. When you’re used to seeing and touching your partner regularly, a long time spent apart can leave you wanting some things — craving them, even. For these reasons, we’re big fans of Bluetooth sex toys, which are some of our favorite sex toys for couples.
One of the hardest parts of being apart when in a relationship is keeping your sex life alive and thriving. Virtual sex and mutual pleasuring over the phone are great ways to keep each other satisfied, especially when fun sex games and other surprises are in the mix, too. But what if you could control your partner’s pleasure remotely just as you would in person?
Thankfully, there is a new technology that can make that happen, and it’s glorious. Teledildonics — sex toys that can be connected via remote control, apps or synced devices — opens up exciting new possibilities for long-distance lovers. Today, many sex toys can be controlled via an app from miles away, so even though you feel far apart, your bodies can enjoy some virtual stimulation from your partner. Whether you’re interested in taking your tech to the next level or just want some tips for keeping it hot in your separate bedrooms, we’ve got a list for you.
Check out our favorite Bluetooth sex toys and sex gifts for long-distance relationships.
1. OhMiBod blueMotion Nex|2
You can’t talk about the best Bluetooth sex toys without talking about OhMiBod, which brought app-connected sex toys into the mainstream. This innovative sex toy brand is known for making premium sex toys that can be enjoyed solo or with a partner — even a partner on the other side of the world. By allowing your partner to control the intensity, duration and vibration pattern, you can bring an extra level of intimacy and excitement to phone sex and other types of long-distance lovemaking. The blueMotion Nex|2 is one of the latest OhMiBod sex toys to be released, and this G-spot vibrator is a splash-proof toy made from body-safe silicone.
2. Lovense Nora Max 2 Long-Distance Sex Toy
This Bluetooth sex toy is perfectly designed for long-distance couples. It’s got both male and female counterparts, both of which have Bluetooth app connection capabilities and unique mechanisms designed for his and her pleasure. Enjoy the ability to control and manipulate your partner’s pleasure from miles away with these synced toys and easy-to-use app. The male toy moves up and down along the penis and manipulates the vibrational speed of the female toy. The female toy, on the other hand, pumps more air into the male sex toy to mimic vaginal contractions as the vibrator moves. The two toys work in sync, just as you do, to mutually pleasure seamlessly.
The app is fully encrypted for added security and both toys boast quick response times as well as multiple connection options. You can also use the Intelligent Playback feature to record your individual session and let your partner use it later on if you can’t sync up in real-time, a very popular option for military couples.
3. LoveSense Lush 3
BEST NEW PRODUCT
The Lush 3, also from LoveSense, is a popular toy on adult chat websites like Chaturbate, CamSoda and MyFreeCams. Performers can insert the Lush 3, and viewers can then pay to activate the device, making it possible for fans to interact with their favorite stars. The toy can also be enjoyed by couples, as you turn over control of this vibrator to your partner. This functionality can make for a particularly X-rated date night, and the possibilities for long-distance relationships should be obvious as well.
Of course, all of the best Bluetooth sex toys feature this type of remote control, so what makes the Lush 3 so special? The Lush 3 has earned rave reviews for its particularly intense vibrations (although there are less intense settings, too). The Lush 3 also has an impressive battery life, is easy to connect to your devices and is IPX7 waterproof. It’s also more affordable than similar sex toys from OhMiBod and WeVibe. Iit’s easy to see why the LoveSense Lush 3 has emerged as one of the most popular Bluetooth sex toys in the world, particularly among online adult performers.
4. We-Vibe Melt Bluetooth Sex Toy
BEST FOR HER
If you’re a lady who’s missing oral stimulation from your partner this We-Vibe Melt sex toy is specifically designed for you and fulfilling your needs. It’s equipped with pleasure air technology and is designed for couples wanting to pleasure each other from afar with the We-Connect app that syncs and offers control features. It’s ergonomically designed for ideal placement, has 12 levels of intensity and has Bluetooth bonding to protect you from signal interruption.
5. Kiiroo Onyx Pearl2 Purple Couples Bluetooth Sex Toy Set
BEST FOR HIM
This set includes a male masturbator that mimics the sensations of oral stimulation from afar and can reach speeds up to 140 strokes per minute. The rotating motor works in a lateral motion with ten rings inside of the sleeve to stimulate real intercourse and comes with a G-spot vibrator for your partner to use as well, near you or far away. Control your partner’s pleasure with a touch-sensitive pad on your toy, and let them do the same to you from theirs.
6. SVAKOM Bluetooth Vibrating Egg
This vibrating egg from SVAKOM is the perfect waterproof option for switching up her routine. It’s got an ergonomic design and five different modes to choose between via the smartphone app. The ribbed design increases pleasure and the battery lasts for hours. It’s made of high-quality silicone that’s waterproof so she can enjoy it submerged.
7. Remoji: DIVER Egg Vibe Cerise
Sometimes the sexiest of situations happen when you’re least expecting them. The Remoji DIVER Egg Vibe Cruise is meant to be worn whenever, wherever and is completely controlled by a partner of your choice. It has six almost silent vibrations that will send her on a wild ride wherever she might be. In the office? Turn it on. At the store? Turn it on. Lunch with friends? Turn it on and let the consensual surprise fun begin.
8. Lovense Hush Bluetooth Butt Plug
BEST FOR MUSIC LOVERS
Love to share music with your partner? Now you can sync his or her pleasure with a song of your choosing with this vibrating butt plug that syncs up with music easily. This versatile plug works in long-distance settings as well as discretely out in public with an easy-to-use app and comfortable design. It’s made of 100% silicone with spirals on the neck for easy removal and a reliable neck that will make sure it stays put. It’s waterproof, totally wireless, has powerful vibrations and can be controlled from any distance via a WiFi connection. Crank up the tunes and the pleasure at the same time.
9. Mystery Vibe Crescendo Bluetooth Bendable Smart Vibrator
If you want flexibility in the bedroom, check out this innovative and extremely versatile Bluetooth sex toy. This Crescendo Vibrator from Mystery Vibe bends, twists and adapts to your body’s shape and your unique needs as you enjoy it. It’s made of smooth silicone designed to move and groove with you as your pleasure is controlled via an app in your partner’s hands. It’s got 12 patterns to choose from and 16 intensity levels for bodies and preferences of all kinds. Don’t limit yourself to one shape, enjoy this flexible toy and the Bluetooth capabilities that come with it.
10. LELO F1s Developer’s Kit
BEST MALE MASTURBATOR
Dudes masturbate; we all know this. Next time you need to help out your long-distance man on his next solo sesh, have a little fun with it by controlling the time he has with the LELO F1s Developer’s Kit. This massaging male masturbator will give his penis the pleasure it deserves with all the control you’re offering through the LELO app. There are 10 performance sensors for the solo orgasm of his dreams and cleanup is also effortless.
11. We-Vibe Moxie Wearable Vibrator Bluetooth Sex Toy
BEST WEARABLE OPTION
Unlike other sex toy companies, We-Vibe specializes in sex toys for couples, and it’s no surprise that the brand makes some of the best Bluetooth sex toys for long-distance relationships. Why limit yourself to the confines of your bedroom? This wearable vibrator is perfect for couples who want to take their Bluetooth sex toys out for a walk around the block, socially distanced of course. No one has to know what’s going on underneath the surface with this discreet but powerful stimulator. It’s small, comfortable to wear and very quiet so no one will have a clue. It’s got a magnet clip so it’ll stay in place as long as you want it to and has an app your partner can control from anywhere. It’s waterproof and made of high-quality silicone that won’t irritate most skin types.
12. The Cowgirl
For those looking to take their virtual sex experience to a whole new world, giddy the hell on up and check out The Cowgirl Sybian-style vibrator. This vegan leather saddle is one of the wildest Bluetooth sex toys in existence. It’s made to ride forward or reverse and can connect to both Kiiroo’s VR technology for a truly adventurous solo time and FeelConnect to give your partner total control from anywhere in the world. It’s going to cost you a pretty penny, but hell, it’s worth it.