Guys — it’s finally time to start taking advantage of sex toys. There are now hundreds of high-quality, pleasure-inducing products that are made specifically for guys, and they’re all better than anything your hand’s capable of doing (we promise).
Thanks to the coronavirus, dating in 2020 is a lot more complicated than it used to be. And whether you’re stuck at home in quarantine or back on the dating scene, we’re all dealing with a lot of stress this year. That means self-care is more important than ever, and the best male sex toys are a great way to relax. Some sexual release might just keep you from punching a hole in the wall.
Talking about sex toys has long been stigmatized (especially with men), but thanks to evolving mindsets around sexuality, it’s now becoming more and more normal for guys to have a personal sex toy or two in their bedside table. But if you’re new to the world of sex toys for men, it can be tricky to know where to start. You’re probably not going to ask a friend or coworker for recommendations. But don’t lose hope — we’re here to help.
The best sex toys for men come in three primary forms: masturbation sleeves (the most popular), sex toys for couples that enhance the experience with your partner, and anal toys. There are also sex dolls with varying degrees of realism, though we haven’t featured any here. Within these categories, there are dozens of variations such as masturbation cups, oral sex simulators, vibrating prostate stimulators and penis rings for stimulating your partner. We’ve rounded up the best male sex toys in each of these categories, with options for sleeves, couple’s toys and more, depending on your needs and budget. Check them out below.
1. Fleshlight Flight Pilot
Fleshlight introduced its famous line of masturbation sleeves in the 90s, debuting one of the best sex toys of all time in the process. In the same way some still call generic soda Coke, Fleshlight has become a synonym for all masturbation sleeves. This Flight Pilot is an upgraded, more compact version of Fleshlights original design. It scores high on discretion with a flashlight disguise and a clear, non-vagina-looking hole. The interior is nubby, made of silky Superskin and easy to wash with soap and water after each successful use. Normally we wouldn’t suggest snagging your sex toys from Amazon considering they (surprisingly) don’t always have the most killer options, but this is one the exceptions.
2. Fleshlight Quick Shot
Fleshlight is without a doubt the best-known name in the male masturbation game. This $35 pocket masturbator is the perfect introduction to sex toys for men who have never used a masturbation aid like this before. As one of the best sex toys for men on the market, this discrete and compact masturbation sleeve will help you while away the hours the way we have been since March.
3. Tenga Egg (6-Pack)
BEST EGG STROKERS
These Japanese egg-shaped devices might not look like sex toys, but that’s part of the reason they’re best-sellers. Inside the eggs’ shells you’ll find a stretchy, textured pure TPE masturbation sleeve and some lubricant. Put a dollop of lube on the egg, and then stretch it over your penis. Inside are textured ridges that provide a huge upgrade over the calluses on your hand. Reviewers also recommend cutting a hole in the top of one of the eggs to facilitate oral sex. These eggs are single-use products and aren’t designed for more well-endowed men. That being said, if you want to give your hand a break, they’re a fun addition to your normal masturbation routine.
4. ColorPoP ScreamingO Vibrating Ring
BEST VIBRATING RING
Sure, there are fancier vibrating cock rings on this list (just keep reading), but this $8 toy blows most of them out of the water. Simple, affordable and easy to slip on and off, this is a fun little toy that adds a little more excitement to your everyday bedroom activities. While it’s best used with a partner, it adds a fun twist on your normal masturbatory routine, too. That’s why it’s not only one of the best male sex toys, but also one of the only ones under $10.
5. Fleshlight Super Stamina Training Unit Combo
BEST FOR PREMATURE EJACULATION
The best premature ejaculation products can help you enjoy longer, more fulfilling sex. And if you want to work on your personal stamina in the bedroom, then this training kit from Fleshlight has everything you need to address your trigger problems. Fleshlight makes some of the best sex toys for men, so you’re in good hands. This product includes Fleshlight’s classic, best-selling masturbation sleeve (disguised as a flashlight when not in use), as well as other essentials needed for some good old fashioned edging. You’ll get a shower mount, Fleshlight brand lube, cleaning solution and renewing powder to keep your Fleshlight in the best shape possible. You’re going to want to act fast, though, this pack is a hot commodity. It is sold out everywhere aside from Fleshlight’s actual website. If you don’t want to spring for the entire kit, you can instead purchase the Go Stamina Training Unit.
6. LELO Billy 2 Vibrating Prostate Massager
BEST VIBRATOR FOR MEN
Looking to tickle your funny bone, so to speak? Dropping the euphemism, the LELO Billy 2 is designed to stimulate the prostate. That’s right, it’s time for butt stuff, fellas. LELO is an award-winning sex toy company with beautiful and effective sex toys for men, women and couples. This prostate massager has a variety of settings designed to get you there, which is why it’s one of our best male sex toys.
7. Supreme Under The Bed Bindings Kit in Black
BEST BONDAGE TOYS
Okay, if you’re curious about bondage and the exciting world of BDSM toys, then this beginner-friendly BDSM starter kit has everything you and a partner need to get started. But listen up, guys: this is not the kind of toy you break out when your Tinder date is going really well. It’s something you try with a trusted partner, and only after discussing your mutual interests and boundaries like adults. We would advise you to read up on BDSM best practices before trying out under-the-bed restraints, handcuffs, floggers and blindfolds, all of which are included in this set. There’s a lot more to BDSM than simply picking a safe word, and you want to make sure that your lover is enjoying him or herself as much as you are.
8. Tenga Cool Egg
If you want to test out the best-selling Tenga Egg before buying a pack, or you just want a single special night, go for this Tenga Cool Egg. The ribbed masturbator includes menthol-infused lubricant for a very pleasant cooling sensation. It’s also nice for the ladies if you spread the egg over a dildo with the menthol lube applied.
9. Main Squeeze Pop-Off Masturbator
Discretion is very important for many sex toy buyers. You don’t want a nosey roommate, friend or, even worse, a kid to discover your personal stress-relief device. Although some of our options offer discretion, this masturbator from Main Squeeze is the most low-profile of the lot. It’s only four inches long (so, not the length of a normal masturbator), doesn’t feature any realistic styling and doesn’t have any branding that someone could easily Google. Plus, it feels great too with a soft ULTRASKYN build and a textured interior.
10. We-Vibe Pivot
BEST COUPLES TOY
If you and your lady are looking for a bedroom upgrade, go for this We-Vibe penis ring. It slides over the penis while that little extension vibrates to stimulate your partner’s clitoris, ensuring that she climaxes too. It can also be flipped upside down to vibrate the testicles during sex or masturbation. Plus, the device connects to an app that allows one person to control the vibrations from anywhere in the world, so long-distance couples can still connect sexually.
11. Clone-A-Pussy Plus
BEST CUSTOMIZABLE VAGINA
Maybe your girlfriend is gone often. Or, maybe you are a girlfriend and you want to give your man something to tide him over. In either case, check out this Clone-A-Pussy. That’s right, it’s a design-your-own masturbator that replicates any vulva. The kit uses silicone and molding powder that shapes to any vulva for a just-like-home feel. It comes with a high-quality pleasure sleeve, case, lubricant and easy to follow instructions so you can be ready for action right away.
12. Clone A Willy Dildo
BEST CUSTOMIZABLE PENIS
Exactly in the same way you can clone a vagina, you can clone a dick. Whether you have a man in your life whose piece you want to replicate when you can’t see him or you want to create a clone of your very own Johnson for that very special someone, this is the way to do it. It’s designed for both anal and vaginal play, so the pleasure possibilities are variant and endless. Colors come in pink, purple, darker flesh-toned that the brand is referring to as “chocolate” and lighter flesh-toned that they’re referring to as “vanilla”.
13. Shower Stroker Pussy
FOR THE SHOWER
If it’s shower masturbation or bust for you (pun intended), here’s a toy you’ll like. This stroker is intended for lube-free use in the shower. It’s made of a special TPE that gets extra slick once in contact with water, so there’s no need to buy and apply lube. To use the device, just wet your finger, put it in the hole and get to it.
14. LELO F1s Red
Who knew that a male sex toy could be so high-tech? This male sex toy comes from LELO, best known for making highly-rated and beautifully designed sex toys for women. However, the F1s Red is made for men. This electronic masturbator has some pretty insane features. A dual motor provides just the right amount of motion and pressure to stimulate your penis, with user-friendly controls designed to be operated with one hand. It even comes with its own app to track your stamina over time.
While one of the motors provides vibrations, the other provides intense sonic waves that stimulate you from every direction. Not only that, but the F1s Red comes with a developer tool kit. Using the accompanying app, you can custom program your own settings to provide exactly the right amount of stimulation in all of the right places. This male sex toy looks like something straight out of science fiction.
So why didn’t we rate this high-tech sex toy higher on our list of the best male sex toys? While there’s a lot to love here, including the LELO brand name, this sex toy is a little more complicated than most men really need. It’s just not that hard to get men off.
15. First Time Fetish Nipple Teasers
For guys that enjoy a little bit of nipple stimulation both with their partners and solo, these nipple teasers are an excellent way to influence toys for some hands-free fun. They come with rubber tips that are easy to remove depending on how hard you like it and are joined by a 12″ lightweight metal chain for extra weight. There are adjustable tension controls to ensure you’re not in as much pain as you might think you want to be. It’s awesome for first-timers and dudes that have tons of experience with nipple play alike.
16. Beginner’s Power Pump
BEST PENIS PUMP
Though we’re still a bit unsure whether or not this pump falls into the category of the best men’s sex toys or not, we’re including it for obvious reasons. If you’re underperforming in the bedroom due to your size, this beginner’s pump will elongate your manhood to help you bring more heat to your sexual experiences. Use this machine solo with a water-based lube and watch your little guy grow. Aside from the fact that it really does have the ability to elongate that Johnson, it feels great too both during and after use. Over 150,000 of these babies have been sold on Adam and Eve with tons of solid reviews, so what are you waiting for?
17. PALOQUETH Male Prostate Massager
Male prostate stimulation is quickly becoming normalized with straight men — and that’s a great thing. When properly stimulated, the small gland of nerves behind the penis creates an incredibly satisfying orgasm. This improves both masturbation and sex with a partner, but either way, a good prostate stimulator will make it more pleasurable and easier for all involved. We recommend this male sex toy because it’s not too big for beginners, it’s remote controlled and it’s reasonably priced.
18. Flip Zero Electronic Masturbator
This electronic masturbator from Tenga is the Ferrari of male sex toys. Once you’re inserted, you can pick from several vibration modes that utilize two vibration cores for serious stimulation. Then, you’re able to manually control the amount of pressure inside the device using large buttons on the side. This gives you more control, while greatly upgrading the whole experience with a just-right sucking sensation.
19. Trans Masc Pump
BEST FOR TRANS MEN
Not all men have the same anatomy, so for dudes post or pre-transition looking to extend what they’ve got, this airtight cylindrical pump will help you explore and experience intense feel and sensation from the art of suction. Simply hold the pump against your body and play around with the controls to get the suck you want, then quickly release the suction to feel a mind-altering sensation your body hasn’t experienced. Note that this isn’t going to permanently increase your size, but it’s an awesome way to experience the pump as a trans man or non-binary person.
20. Njoy Pure Wand
BEST STEEL TOY
If you’re looking for a masculine butt plug, you can’t do better than this ultra-rugged stainless steel toy from Njoy. This sleek toy is 11 inches long and weighs 1.5 pounds, so you’ll love the weight of it in your hands. Great for men and women (though obviously not meant to be shared), it’s a great choice for your bedroom toy collection.
21. Naughty Trainer Butt Plugs
If you want to explore anal stimulation and prostate fun without the complexity of vibrators or heavy steel wands, then try this simple collection of butt plugs. These silicone anal plugs come in three sizes so you can figure out what works best for your body.
22. Lovehoney Mega Mighty 3 Extra Inches Penis Extender with Ball Loop
If you’re not packing as much heat as you might want, this silicone penis extension adds an extra three inches to spice up the bedroom for a naughtier time in the bedroom. Pleasure your partner the way they want by thrusting with just a little more “effort”. The snug sleeve has the ability to keep everything in place and desensitizes your shlong to give you the ability to last longer even when you think you can’t. There is even a ball holder to keep your jewels in place, too.
23. CB-6000 Male Chastity Cage Kit
While we don’t suggest this for guys just starting out in the realm of sex toys, but this is an excellent pick for guys who are a bit more on the submissive side in their sexual endeavors. This BDSM chastity cage keeps your pecker locked up tight in a trapped 3.25 inch long, medical-grade polycarbonate enclosure to ensure that thing is not getting hard. It’s ventilated for breathability and ergonomic in it’s make, so you can wear it for as long as your heart desires. Or as long as mistress makes you.
24. B-VIBE – Triplet Anal Beads
BEST ANAL BEADS
These vibrating anal beads from b-Vibe have a lot to offer your prostate, and we recently named the brand’s vibrating plugs one of the best sex toys of all time. This toy comes with six vibration patterns, 15 vibration levels and a wireless remote control. The discrete carrying case makes this easy to tuck away in your nightstand or closet, and the beginner-friendly size is perfect for first-time exploration. b-Vibe is a top-rated sex toy company that makes some of the best male sex toys for anal fun, so place your order and try the Triplet Anal Beads on for size.
25. Autoblow A.I.
BEST… ROBOT SEX TOY?
If you thought robots were taking over the world before, hold onto your bedframe. This Autoblow A.I. is a hands-free blowjob simulator that has analyzed 1,000 hours of blowjob footage to simulate realistic, diverse oral stimulation. If it seems a little freaky, that’s understandable. But if you have the cash (and an adventurous attitude), this is one of the most rewarding male sex toy on the market. Recently, you may have noticed this sex gadget advertised on porn tube sites, and if you’re ready to satisfy your curiosity, go ahead and take the plunge.