Welcome to the Brave New World of VR Sex Toys and Blowjob Machines

Lelo F1s Developer's Kit Red and
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Let’s get right to down it: We’re here today to talk about VR sex toys and blowjob machines.

First, let’s take a moment to clear up and put to bed any feelings of shame or stigma you might have about exploring this unfortunately taboo topic. Being curious about and using sex toys, including sex toys for men, is totally typical and utterly commonplace. The truth is that if men — that means you and also your friends — weren’t interested in high-tech sex toys, companies wouldn’t be racing to make them. But don’t take our word for it: According to PR Newswire, the global sex toy market is expected to reach $52.7 billion by 2026, with much of the growth expected to be spurred by technology-driven sex toys.

Now that we’ve hopefully cleared any stigma out of the way, we’re glad you’re here because sex toy makers have been putting major capital into VR sex toys, blowjob machines and similar sex toys for men, and the results are high-quality, sophisticated and highly pleasurable for men and, in some cases, their partners too.

Only a few years ago there were just a few janky machine options in addition to traditional hand-held sleeves, but the sex toy market has moved quickly over the last few years to deliver higher-end, more technology-oriented sex toys for men.

In the interest of introducing you to this exploding market, we rounded up some of the best VR sex toys and blowjob machines for men below, in no particular order because they all are guaranteed to work hard to scratch your itch for something more than a hand.


How Do VR Sex Toys Work?

VR is at the helm of tech innovation in the world of sex toys. While it was previously thought of as impossible, you can now put on a pair of goggles in the comfort of your own home and have a truly immersive experience that lets you play out your wildest fantasies like never before. But how exactly do these VR sex toys work?

Ultimately, while there’s no hard and fast definition to the common Google search of “what is a VR sex toy,” it’s some combination of automatic masturbators and a video headset to stimulate as realistic of a sexy experience as possible — some toys are just more immersive than others.

Most VR-compatible sex toys are paired with virtual reality goggles, allowing for a hands-free experience that most Bluetooth-only toys can’t provide.

Beyond being hands-off, VR sex toys have the ability to interact with VR porn. These toys dictate when and how to move, mimicking the actions and speed of whatever steamy scene you’re watching. For instance, if a blowjob is happening onscreen or being delivered directly to you on your headset, these automatic masturbators will match the speed, pressure, and stroke patterns.


How To Use A VR Sex Toy

Not sure how to connect to all that juicy, interactive content on devices from brands like Kiiroo or Fleshlight? Just follow these steps.

  • Download and install FeelConnect
  • Turn on Bluetooth, and click “Connect a device” on the app.
  • Choose your sex toy from the options
  • Visit a Virtual Reality porn site (recommendations below)
  • Watch whatever interactive video you desire, and your toy should sync to the on-screen action.

The most popular headset brands are Oculus and the HTC Vive. One of the most affordable VR headsets is the Play Station VR system, or PSVR, which nearly all these VR sex toys are with.


Sites to Use Your VR Sex Toy On

Isn’t the internet a beautiful thing? there are currently plenty of interactive choices for you to use with your VR set while jerking off. According to satisfied customers, top picks include:

WankzVR: This is one of the most popular Virtual Reality porn sites with a focus on high-quality performers, which has earned them the win of VR Site of the Year – two years in a row.

VRB Gay: if you’re on the hunt for content specifically for gay users, this site has something for bottoms, tops, and everything in between.

VR Bangers: If choosing between plenty of niches is your jam, consider this interactive site which has a wide selection, as well as the added perk of VR porn games.

Feel Me: Feel Me is a single platform that unites every aspect of the VR adult world for a range of toys. They’re essentially the ultimate resource for any and all interactive toys. Their in house porn library is also massive.

All the sex toys below work roughly the same to some extent. They all feature some kind of sleeve and enclosure for insertion and then that enclosure can vibrate or move to simulate the feelings of sex or oral sex. They all also tend to feature motors and mechanical parts to function, and as a result, can be somewhat loud.

As for features specific to the VR sex toy options, you can connect your toy to a computer, phone or VR device to synchronize your pleasure with something else over the internet, such as sexually explicit games and videos or in some cases a different sex toy being used by a partner. We’ve also included some high-tech blowjob machines, which basically do the same things but don’t offer video or virtual connectivity.


Where To Buy VR Sex Toys

While there are tons of VR sex toys available online, your local sex shop might not have the options that you’re looking for. Shopping online at one of our vetted retailers allows you to choose between male masturbators, vibrators, and a generally wider range of options for your kink-specific needs.

Start your search at trusted websites like Lovehoney.com (they’re basically the Amazon of sex toys with their wide selection) as well as retailer-specific sites heading the VR sex toy industry, like KIIROO.


1. Kiiroo Titan VR Experience

Kiiroo has been on the cutting edge of interactive sex toys for women and men in the last few years. One of its latest offerings, the Titan VR Experience, promises an intense, interactive stroking experience.

Except for the addition of vibrating bullets, the Titan appears pretty simple at first blush. You’ve got a grippy enclosure, check, a real-feel sleeve, check, and touch-sensitive pads to control the vibration.

But a few other factors make the Titan VR Experience enticing. It is one of the above-mentioned devices that can pair with a partner’s device, in this case, Kiiroo’s vibrators, the Pearl2, the Cliona or the OhMiBod Fuse, which makes the Titan great for long-distance couple’s play. When the two devices are connected, those touch-sensitive pads will control the speed and intensity of vibrations for your partner for a mutually intense and pleasurable experience that’s a notable improvement over phone sex.

But the offerings for solo use are just as enticing too. The Titan VR Experience also ships with a smartphone-based VR headset and you can use the headset or just your smartphone to connect to over 4,000 interactive videos in VR or 2D as you please.

Kiiroo even throws in some toy cleaner and lube for your benefit too, so you’re ready to play right out of the box.

Kiiroo Titan VR Experience Courtesy of Kiiroo


2. Lovense Max 2

The Lovense Max 2 is one of the better, cheaper VR sex toys out there, but it’s surprisingly feature-full despite its under-$100 price tag.

First, what it doesn’t do. This device is not a stroker, so it has no components that move up or down, meaning you’ll have to do all the movement. It also has limited VR options in that you can only use this device to synchronize to the MirrorLife VR sex game, which features 3D computer-generated models as opposed to real people.

But that’s about all it doesn’t have. Instead of stroking, it causes pleasure through a vibrator on the device and 360-degree contractions, which can be controlled through an app or buttons on the device. It also makes use of an adjustable air vent on the back of the device to control suction and tightness.

The Max 2 doesn’t need to be plugged in to function, which is great for portability. It’s also fully rechargeable in 100 minutes, with runtimes of 215, 160 and 95 minutes depending on the settings, and it features wireless Bluetooth to connect to a computer.

In another win for couples, the Max 2 can also pair with Lovense’s Nora vibrator and other Max 2 devices, a thoughtful feature for all the same-sex lovers out there.

Overall, for the price, it’s a solid sex toy, but there are four downsides to note.

First, you need to purchase an extra Bluetooth adapter for online connectivity, so if you’re going for this and want to use the MirrorLife content, make sure to pick it up too. The second downside is the content only works on PCs, which just feels like a missed opportunity.

The third downside is the inability to use the content with a VR headset. We’re willing to bet you could finesse it through Bluetooth, but Lovense doesn’t list VR use as a feature. The last con, which to be fair is also a pro, is the fact the device is controlled through an app. You might prefer using the app-based controls over the device’s controls and the app enables your partner on a different continent to control your device, which is good. But, it does make showing your Mom your phone a heck of a lot harder.

But that being said, the Lovense Max 2 is a solid VR sex toy (with limited connectivity and content limited to PC users) as well as a more affordable option for long-distance partners.

Lovense Max 2 Courtesy of Lovense


3. Fleshlight Launch

If you’re looking for a VR sex toy that offers some sleeve interchangeability, then you’re going to want to check out the Fleshlight Launch.

The device is basically a machine that locks in a Fleshlight masturbator and moves it up and down to stroke you according to settings you can adjust on the sides of the device. That being the case, it doesn’t come with any kind of sleeve, unlike the previous options, so you’ll also need to buy a Fleshlight sleeve and case to use this device. (Most sleeves comes with cases.)

As for the Launch itself, it’s ultimately not too complicated, but we’re certain it’s years ahead of your hand. The design is fairly sleek, if somewhat big at 12.75 inches tall, and Fleshlight claims the Launch can reach up to 180 strokes per minute. The Launch is also rechargeable via USB, includes free software upgrades and wireless Bluetooth connectivity and is compatible with FeelMe.com and your favorite VR headset or smartphone. Fleshlight actually used Kiiroo’s technology to help make the Launch, so if you trust Kiiroo, you can trust the Launch.

Once you’ve got the Fleshlight and the Launch, you can expect a more or less full automatic experience whether you decide to synchronize it with VR videos or not.

However, we must note that Fleshlight plans on discontinuing the Launch device soon and the Launch no longer appears on FeelMe’s website, so be aware you may lose some VR capability down the road, though the device itself will still stroke just fine.

If you’re looking for something similar, Fleshlight also offers the Quickshot Launch. It’s a redesigned device meant to do the same things as the Launch, except it’s compatible with Fleshlight’s Quickshot masturbators instead of its full-size masturbators.

There are some hardware differences, like the Quickshot Launch being both battery-powered and outlet-powered. It can also stroke faster, up to 250 times per minute, and the top of the device features a universal smartphone holder so you can enjoy your media while enjoying the device. Unlike the bigger Launch, this device isn’t compatible at all with additional videos or media, but it is $10 cheaper, at least.

Fleshlight Launch Courtesy of Fleshlight

Fleshlight Quickshot Launch Courtesy of Fleshlight


4. Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit Red

Count on Lelo to make one of the better-designed blowjob machines on the market. Lelo helped pioneer high-quality sex toys for women and now it’s trying to take over the men’s market with the Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit Red.

To get the missing stuff out of the way first, this is not a VR sex toy. It’s not compatible or synchronizable with any third-party content, so it’ll just be you and the toy and manual controls. But to be fair Lelo seemed less focused on creating something interactive than on creating the sleekest and most modern-looking blowjob machine. On that count, Lelo succeeded.

This high-quality toy makes use of two motors and 10 sensors to help use what Lelo calls SenSonic technology. Instead of vibrations, the device makes sonic waves that create a rippling, resonating sensation all over you. It also incorporates what Lelo calls Cruise Control, which can boost the power of the motor to compensate for any resistance you might cause and help maintain intensity and avoid any unarousing fits and power drops.

As for the device itself, it looks about as modern as a sex toy for men can look. The body is textured aluminum and makes use of curved internal grooves for additional sensation, and a window panel adds a whole new angle to the experience too. You can control the F1s Red through a three-button interface designed for one hand or through the Lelo app, which can also track your performance and usage. Lastly, it’s fully waterproof and USB-rechargeable, with a runtime of two hours on a full charge, all of which is majorly convenient.

Overall, if you’re not too invested in the idea of virtual experiences and are just looking for high-quality hardware and design, then the Lelo F1s Developer’s Kit Red is one of the best blowjob machines for you.

Lelo F1s Developer's Kit Red Courtesy of Lelo


5. Autoblow A.I.

If you’re looking for a blowjob machine that will get you the closest to actual oral sex, then you’ll be interested to hear about the Autoblow A.I. At first glance, it looks like a run-of-the-mill, if nicely designed, stroker-style blowjob machine. It features a sleeve inside an enclosure and an arm that grips the sleeve and moves up and down, thus stroking you through the sleeve.

The device is powered through a plug, which makes it less portable but you’ll never have to worry about battery power or the device accidentally turning on. It also doesn’t feature any connectivity, so it’s just you and the device.

But it’s the technology inside the machine that makes the Autoblow A.I. a winner. Most stroking devices tend to have two settings: speed and intensity. While that totally works, there’s no way to deliver stroking variation. That’s exactly what the Autoblow A.I. does differently.

The team behind the device researched real-life blowjob techniques and programmed the machine with 10 different settings to replicate those real-life motions and actions. With the Autoblow A.I., you can have a top stroke, bottom stroke, full stroke, a stroke meant for edging as well as three settings that combine those and more options. One of those combo settings, the Full A.I. Experience, promises to never offer the same pattern and variety of strokes, which makes each experience on that setting truly unique.

And that’s about the gist of it. You should know this is the most expensive option we’ve included here, but if you’re trying to replicate the sensation and variety of real-life oral sex, the Autoblow A.I. is the closest you’re going to get from a blowjob machine.

Autoblow A.I. Courtesy of Autoblow


6. Virtual Mate

Virtual Mate, a self dubbed “virtual intimacy system” is hailed by many as being one of the best VR sex toys on the market today, and is the first human-pc interaction interface. This complex system creates a virtual mate based on any virtual character or celeb that gives Virtual Mate permission. With three modes to choose from (Fast, Story, and VR), this software comes with a realistic silicone sleeve.

Over time, your artificially intelligent virtual mate grows more real, replicating a real person. This product is seriously pushing the boundaries of visual realism and life-like interaction, with impressive real-time responses to strength, speed, and depth. If your goal is to go as realistic as possible, look no further.

Virtual Mate Courtesy of Virtual Mate


7. SenseMax Sense EcoSystem VR Pleasure Set

The SenseMax Sense EcoSystem VR Pleasure Set is one of the most immersive experiences you can have, taking the definition of handjob to the next level. The SenseBand bracelet that it comes with contains motion-sensing technology, detecting the speed t which you move your hand. SenseMax sends this data via Bluetooth to sync with your strokes. Just place your mobile device in the headset and choose a love and video on the brand’s compatible app. Next, choose between watching, interacting, or directing scenes by moving your SenseBand.

enseMax Sense EcoSystem VR Pleasure Set Courtesy of Ella Paradis


8. Kiiroo Onyx2 Asa Akira Experience

Move over, Jenna Jameson. Asa Akira is officially one of the most popular and instantly recognizable porn stars of this era. This splash-proof VR simulator lets you get down and dirty up close with this renowned adult actress. While the Kiiroo Onyx2 Asa Akira Experience doesn’t come with its own headset, you can use this snug masturbator Fleshlight SuperSkin sleeve completely with thrusting technology. Unlike other sleeves, this lifelike one grips and rubs your member just like Asa would, with no movement required on your part.

Kiiroo Onyx2 Asa Akira Experience Courtesy of Ella Paradis


9. Keon & Feel Stroker

The Keon & Feel stroker, created by VR sex toy innovator KIIROO has incredible grip control and an extremely ergonomic shape that makes it feel more natural to use. This stroker is compact but packs quite a punch, and is one of the most versatile toys on our list, as it can connect to a range of other toys, and lots of interactive content (including everything on feelme.com), as well as interactive webcams. It can also reach an impressive speed of up to 230 strokes per minute.

Keon & Feel Stroker Courtesy of Kiiroo


10. Keon + Feelstroker & Cliona Couple Set

For straight couples looking to enhance their bond, check out the Keron + Feelstroker & Cliona couple’s set. The male user can enjoy KIROO’s first stroker with a silky, sumptuous material, and fit into the Keon, which creates automatic masturbation. Then, the Cliona massages the clit and is possible for shower play thanks to its waterproof features. These devices, when combined, facilitate two-way pleasure. Whether you want to experience mutual masturbation in a totally new way or try something a little freakier, this couple’s set has your back.

Keon + Feelstroker & Cliona Couple Set Courtesy of Kiiroo


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