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10 Self Heated Sex Toys That’ll Put You In The Mood

Sex toys have experienced a serious makeover in recent years thanks to technology — from Bluetooth-enabled toys for long-distance fun to suction technology that feels like a real mouth, self-pleasure is having a moment like never before.

But just like foreplay helps warm us up for sex, sometimes sex toys need a little more oomph than just lube to get us going. Especially as the days get cooler. Regardless of what season it is, heated sex toys can help make things a little cozier (and more realistic).

While heated sex toys aren’t necessarily the best sex toys for beginners, these bedroom must-haves are able to amplify your experience tremendously with the crank of what feels like a handheld thermostat. Furthermore, heated sex toys make for an excellent addition in the bedroom as one of the best sex toys for couples.

You know, in case you want to spice things up a little extra.

In the past, you’d have to warm up your toys in water, which is both an annoying process and can take a long time. This new tech on warming toys allows your toys to heat up perfectly to your body heat and can even arouse you further, experimenting with temperature play in all kinds of ways.

The warmth from self-heated sex toys doesn’t just imitate the warmth of a human partner – it promotes increased blood flow and pelvic relaxation as well, making it a decadent choice for those experiencing menstrual or pelvic pain of any sort.

If you’re sick of playing with a cold piece of silicone, warm up with the best heated sex toy picks you can purchase online.

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1. Lora DiCarlo Sway


This innovative sex toy by Lora Di Carlo is extremely versatile, which is why it’s one of the best heated sex toys out there. This toy contains dual ends which are ergonomically sculpted for G-spot and prostate massage. There’s also a raised stimulation point for external massage.

Sway evenly heats up to 104 degrees (just above average body temperature) for a completely relaxing experience. whether you’re looking to get to the P-spot, G-spot, or explore perineum play, this non-phallic vibe is so much more than a conventional clitoral vibrator.

Read More: The Best Sex Toys of 2022

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2. Svakom Emma Neo Smart Warming Wand Vibrator


Wands have evolved way past the Hitachi at this point, even though that trusted wand has gotten people off for years. Think of Svakom’s Emma Neo Wand as a Hitachi 2.0, with a sleek black and gold design, interactive capabilities, and a self-warming feature.

This wand vibrator even comes with a rabbit ear attachment for different sensations and heats up to just over 100 degrees. It even has an automated “Intelligent Mode” that takes you all the way from foreplay to orgasm using a variety of rhythms and intensity levels.

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3. ToyCod Automatic Sucking Male Masturbator Cup


If you’re a guy and you’re living without a male masturbator, you’re not living right. That’s simply the truth. This male masturbator is one of the best heated sex toys for guys because it really knows how to get the party going on your member. It heats up to 104 degrees total and both suctions and squeezes while you’re using it.

It’s made with odorless, non-toxic and hypoallergenic materials to ensure every dude can safely get his little buddy in and feel that desirable heated experience. It’s suggested to use water-based lube for a wet consistency that helps the experience seem more real if you catch our drift.

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4. Blowmotion Warming Vibrating Male Masturbator


Just like women have been blessed with clit suction toys, men can now enjoy the feeling of a blowjob with heated masturbation sleeves. This warming pick by Blowmotion is USB rechargeable and features a 3-inch interior canal that heats up so you can sit back, close your eyes, and fantasize about whatever you want.

This blowjob simulator has multiple vibration and power levels, wrapping around the head of the penis like a warm mouth – just remember to generously apply a water-based lube beforehand.

Read More: The Best Male Sex Toys

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Courtesy of Lovehoney


5. Nipple Play Heated Nipple Teasers


If the thought of nipple clamps get you excited but the idea of cold metal does not, consider these nipple Play heated teasers that clamp while resonating 104 degrees towards your body. It has multiple vibration speeds, and the level of pinch intensity can be easily adjusted with a simple screw mechanism.

They’re definitely a step up from your average nipple clamps, and the warmth adds a new kind of tingle. You can also use these teasers on other parts of the body – don’t be afraid to get creative.

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6. Lora DiCarlo Tilt


This vibrating and warming plug with dual motors heats itself up and is a shorter, more compact alternative to Lora Di Carlo’s Sway model. It can be used with every anatomy and gender, stimulating the G-spot and clit or, perineum and prostate simultaneously.

Along with that delicious heat, it offers a deep, rumbly vibration that makes more buzzy vibrators pale in comparison. This thing will provide some seriously soul-sucking orgasms, and with 7 settings, you’re sure to find your perfect sensation.

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Courtesy of Lora DiCarlo


7. Jack Rabbit Heated Ultra-Soft Rabbit Vibrator


If you like external and internal stimulation, a rabbit vibrator is great – it gets its name from the two miniature bunny ears that nuzzle against the clitoris. It has a miniature stimulator for clit action, while a vibrator simultaneously thrusts internally.

This waterproof beauty by Jack Rabbit heats up in just 4 minutes, and the warming feature is independently controlled, so you don’t have to choose it every time. However, combined with the ultra-plus ribbed silicone, you’ll definitely want to.

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8. Lovehoney Love Motion Warming Thrusting Sex Machine Set


Many people dream up having a sex machine like the Cowgirl, but they can run you over $1,000. If you want an automated thrusting experience without the hefty price tag or storage space, consider the Lovehoney Love Motion Remote Control Warming Thrusting Sex Machine Set.

With multiple dildo attachments (a textured one and a non-realistic G-spot-shaped one) the warming function feels like a real human penis – well, with the addition of some incredible vibrations.

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Courtesy of Lovehoney


Cal Exotics Whisper Micro Heated Bullet


This micro-sized bullet vibrator packs quite a punch. It’s small but mighty and heats up for intense, pinpointed sensations. One reviewer comments, “I had never squirted before and we bought this little toy and I squirt every time I or my husband use it on my clit.”

This tiny toy doesn’t slack on power and is the most affordable option on our list, but do keep in mind that it is a toy with wires, so it’s a little less durable than pricier options.

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10. Goop Wellness Ultraplush Self-Heating G-Spot Vibrator


If you’re looking for luxury and a creative design that’s anything but trashy, check out Goop’s Ultraplush Self-Heating G-Spot Vibrator. The tip is made from dual-density silicone, which brings that ultra-plush feel, and unlike vibrators that only offer one kind of sensation, this one has both tingling and buzzing feelings as well as a deeper and more rumbly effect. The toy is hypoallergenic, making it ideal for sensitive users, and is also nonporous, so it’s a breeze to clean.

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