Hot Valentine’s Day Gifts That She’ll Actually Want This Year

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While there’s certainly nothing wrong with gifting a vibrator for Valentine’s Day, sometimes it can be a little on the nose. If you’re on the lookout for classy, sexy gifts that’ll put a smile on her face, take a look at our carefully curated selection of the hottest Valentine’s Day gifts ever. From G to PG-13, we’ve compiled sumptuous items that will spice things up, help her relax, and make sure it is clear that you appreciate her for the queen she is.

Take things beyond the average box of Valentine’s chocolates, red roses or other floral bouquets for something a little more thoughtful. Even though roses and candy are great, you can save them as Valentine’s Day gifts for new relationships. Opting for something unique will make for a more memorable holiday for both of you. It’ll also help remind your partner that you put the time and care into coming up with a creative gift that helps her connect to her primal side.

Showcase your love and gratitude this year with these hot Valentine’s Day gifts for her that are anything but boring.


1. Foria Intimacy Bath Salts


Foria Intimacy Bath Salts Courtesy of Foria


2. Lelo Flickering Touch Massage Candle


What’s better than gifting your significant other with a decadent massage? This massage candle from intimate luxury brand Lelo is available in three sumptuous (but not overwhelming) scents: Vanilla & Crème De Cacao, Snow Pear & Cedarwood, and Black Pepper & Pomegranate. Light the candle to create ambiance and warm the melted oil (a non-greasy combination of apricot kernel oil and shea butter) that safely absorbs into the skin to nourish it. Burn time is 36 hours.

Lelo Flickering Touch Massage Candle Courtesy of Lelo

3. Fleur Du Mal Angel Sleeve Robe


If buying lingerie seems a little forward or just not in your wheelhouse, consider this sexy black silk robe secured by a sash. She can wear it out as a jacket, kimono, or this Valentine’s Day, hopefully, worn with little to nothing underneath it. Ideal if you’re not sure of your partner’s size or if they don’t feel confident wearing more revealing silhouettes. The print options are creative and distinct, letting you make a more perfect choice for her specific sense of style. After all, is there anything more sensual and luxurious than silk?

Fleur Du Mal Angel Sleeve Robe Courtesy of Fleur du Mal

4. The Fantasy Box Whip Necklace


This stunning necklace (available in both gold and silver) is a statement piece and a way to show off some seductive cleavage. It hangs lower than a pendant, with a long tassel lowering all the way to the pelvic bone. The twist? This tassel doubles as a wearable whip, providing some discrete and surprising light BDSM on the go, wherever you go. Whether it’s sitting between some cleavage or resting in hand to deliver some delicious pain, you won’t regret gifting this whip necklace.

The Fantasy Box Whip Necklace Courtesy of Fantasy Box

5. Goose Point Smoked Oysters


Oysters are a well-known aphrodisiac, especially when paired with your favorite glass of bubbly or wine. But there’s nothing romantic about having to sweat over a pile of oysters, shucking them, and worrying about presentation. Instead, opt for these pre-shucked Goose Point Oysters in a jar, which are ready for you to serve with sauce and a squeeze of lemon, or cooked, if you prefer that. You can also head to their website for some tasty smoked oysters; vacuum sealed for freshness.

Goose Point Smoked Oysters Courtesy of Goldbelly

6. Kinky Truth or Dare Pick-a-Stick


When’s the last time you and your lover played a sex game? If the answer is never, you need to spice up date night with this kinky twist on the classic game of truth or dare. In the grown-up version, you get to follow up to 100 racy prompts on double-sides sticks. Truths might lead to questions on your ultimate role-play scenario, while dares could include watching an X-rated movie together.

Kinky Truth or Dare Pick-a-Stick Courtesy of Uncommon Goods


7. Savage X Fenty Crotchless String Of Pearls Thong


If you and your partner like to get a little freaky on the lingerie side of things, opt for these super glamorous (and scandalous) crotchless floral lace panties in black or white, with a string of faux pearls at the crotch opening. According to reviewers, the pearls sit just in the right place. Pearl necklaces and jewelry are overrated — there are plenty of unseen places to bedazzle for a significantly more exciting result. Consider purchasing a size up if you’re unsure of size or your partner is on the curvier side.

Savage X Fenty Crotchless String Of Pearls Thong Courtesy of Savage X Fenty

8. ARTAGIA Talk, Flirt, Dare! Fun and Romantic Game for Couples


This conversation-starting game, touted as being three games in one, features a talk, flirt, and dare category. It’ll help refuel the connection between partners and go from basic innuendo to more of a “pick your poison” vibe that isn’t directly kinky but offers some sexy build-up tension. If you and your partner are too vanilla for a straight-up sex game but want to explore getting to know each other more intimately, both emotionally and physically, take a chance on ARTAGIA’s “Talk, Flirt, Dare.”

ARTAGIA Talk, Flirt, Dare! Fun and Romantic Game for Couples Courtesy of Amazon

9. Intimacy on the Plate by Olga Petrenko


If you and your partner love to cook together in the kitchen, consider a cookbook that focuses on ingredients that’ll turn you on and get you hot for a bit of dessert after you’re done cooking dinner. After all, cooking is a sensual art you do with your hands — it can act as foreplay if you choose the right ingredients to do the trick for both men and women. Who knew that intimacy could be plated?

Intimacy on the Plate by Olga Petrenko Courtesy of Amazon

10. Sextz Gourmet Aphrodisiac Chocolate Bars


If your partner loves chocolate and getting turned on, you’re in luck. These gourmet chocolates that went viral a while ago double as potent herbal aphrodisiacs, and this box includes a range of their best-selling flavors, although you can also buy single-flavor boxes on their site. These sweets boost your libido, with the brand describing them as “better than a battery pack and tastier than a pill” thanks to ingredients like Siberian Ginseng, Horny Goat Weed, Passion Flower, and Dong Quai.

Sextz Gourmet Aphrodisiac Chocolate Bars Courtesy of Sextz

11. Lovehoney Oh! Romantic Red Rose Petals


Spreading out rose petals on the bed isn’t exactly a gift in itself, but it can help set the mood and create an ambiance of romance — without having to clean up dead flower debris. They’re reusable for any romantic occasion and are also scent-free for those who have allergic reactions to roses and other flowers. Consider scattering them all over the bed or leading a trail to a room with some moody lighting and champagne.

Lovehoney Oh! Romantic Red Rose Petals Courtesy of Lovehoney

Hot Valentine's Day Gifts That She'll Actually Want


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