Spice It Up From Thousands of Miles Away With the Best Sex Gifts for Long-Distance Relationships

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Not all relationships are made out to be equal. All across the world, there are thousands upon thousands of couples that don’t necessarily get the satisfaction of seeing one another all the time. Due to how easy it is to communicate over the phone and the internet, couples don’t need to see each other face to face anymore in order to keep up with their partners. We live in a modern day and age where physicality isn’t always necessary. It’s still essential nonetheless to keep in mind that both touch and sex are two key components to a healthy relationship, so it’s important for long-distance couples to find loopholes when they can’t get down and dirty in person. What’s the best way to spice up a technologically-driven relationship in which your partner lives far, far away, you may ask? Sex gifts for long-distance relationships.

Sex gifts are a gamechanger in long-distance relationships. Using sex toys and gifts during an over-the-phone playtime sesh with your partner can enhance eroticism and passion through the phone tremendously. There are so many different sex gifts for long-distance relationships that there are a number of ways to even do it. Whether you’re turning a sexy card game into something more on Zoom, snapping sexy photos wearing little to nothing in a public bathroom or masturbating using matchmaking toys over the phone, you and your partner have free rein to pick your poison and spice up your long-distance sex life the way that suits the two of you best.

Because long-distance relationships are only growing and now that regular-distance relationships are turning more “long-distance” out of fear of spreading the coronavirus, buying sex gifts for long-distance relationships has more pertinence than ever. Whether you’re gifting for a birthday, anniversary, a holiday or simply at random, here are the best sexy gifts for long-distance relationships in 2020. Trust us, you’re not going to be disappointed.


1. Kiiroo Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set


We’re starting off strong, ladies, gents and everyone in between. The Kiiroo Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set is potentially the best way to spice up your long-distance love life. This kit comes with two different toys, the Onyx+, which is a masturbator made for male genitals and the Pearl2, which is a masturbator made for female genitals. The Onyx+ is insane — it’s designed for total discretion and can reach up to a wild 140 strokes per minute. It works in an up and down motion to simulate sex to the penis and feels like you’re inside an actual body. The Pearl2 is a chill-giving, advanced G-spot vibrator that will have toes curling and eyes rolling back in minutes. How is this for couples? We’re glad you asked. All you have to do is connect the two in the toys’ FeelConnect app and you’ll have full control over the other’s masturbator from miles and miles away. With this set, it’s like your partner is with you even when they’re not.

Kiiroo Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set Courtesy of Kiiroo


2. My Daily Mantra Send Nudes Gift Box


While it isn’t necessarily sexual in nature, this gift box is kind of a tit-for-tat kinda gift. You or your partner sends the gift and the other sends nudes as a bit of a thank you. You know, normal things. This box is filled with the utmost perfect picks for the best at-home spa day you can think of. It includes a pyramid natural stone to help bring peace, unity and calmness, a 100% all-natural soy candle of your choice, a boho mantra matchbox, vanilla mint lip balm, whipped body butter, artisan soap and a homemade bath bomb crafted with floral filling. The box is created with the intention of love and will add a sultry, sexy vibe to their next me-day.

My Daily Mantra Send Nudes Gift Box Courtesy of Etsy


3. Lingerie


Lingerie doesn’t only have to be for intimate two-person moments in the bedroom. New York City-based gymnast Roni Nichols says it best herself, “I buy a bunch of lingerie so I can send my boyfriend in Chicago pictures and videos of myself throughout the day”, proving lingerie has a space in long-distance relationships tremendously. “I’ve purchased even more lingerie over quarantine,” she continues, “I like to have something that excites him and makes him want to see it in person — I’ve even bought a couple pairs of sexy underwear for him, too”.

There are so many places nowadays to get sexy underwear for men, women and everyone in between. Right now, we’re loving HisRoom and HerRoom for their massive selection, but for dudes especially, International Jock should absolutely be on your radar.

Bluebella Emerson Strappy Soft Body Teddy & Gregg Homme Room-Max Air Jock Courtesy of HerRoom & International Jock


4. LOVENSE Lush 2 Bullet Vibrator


Want to get really, really spicy? Look no further than the LOVENSE Lush 2 Bullet Vibrator. This bone-chilling device is perfect for any long-distance couple no matter your gender identity or sexuality. Have your partner wear this at home or throughout their day and you can have full access to it. Turn it on when they’re out to dinner with their friends, have it pulse as they’re doing errands, make it go absolutely berzerk on the subway — you get to choose. This device can be used both vaginally and anally, so it has anybody’s name written all over it.

LOVENSE Lush 2 Bullet Vibrator Courtesy of Amazon


5. OUR MOMENTS Sexting: 100 Messages to Text to Your Partner


Even if you aren’t in a long-distance relationship, there’s a good shot you and your partner sext from time to time. In our technologically driven world, it just comes with the territory. This sexy game is a great gift to snag your long-distance partner in order to spice up your online sex life. It will introduce you both to brand new spicy conversation starters and fillers you otherwise might not have thought up yourself. Some might make you a bit red in the face, but all in all, this is a totally worth-it buy for any couple miles apart.

OUR MOMENTS Sexting: 100 Messages to Text to Your Partner Courtesy of Amazon


6. We-Vibe Nova 2


The We-Vibe Nova 2 will change the way you orgasm, and that’s a fact. Anything in a long-distance relationship that has a vagina needs to experience the wild times provided by this adjustable, one-size-fits-all device. Hit your G-spot each and every time with ease and the device will completely flex with your moments, making masturbation unbearably good. It’s also completely waterproof and made with body-safe silicone. How does it work in LDRs? Well, the We-Vibe Nova 2 can be connected to the free We-Connect app where you have the ability to share control of the device from anyone, anywhere. You can even play together with your partner by connecting with their We-Vibe products.

We-Vibe Nova 2 Courtesy of We-Vibe


7. Verge by We-Vibe


Anyone with a penis will appreciate the powerful vibrations from the Verge, also provided by We-Vibe. This device works as a cock ring to shake things up a little and massage the prostate area as you masturbate. It’s totally comfortable and has the ability to fit most members. Because it’s 100% waterproof, it’s easy to enjoy just about anywhere and effortless to clean once playtime is over. Just like our prior pick, you can connect this to the We-Connect app and play with your partner’s toy from miles away. Meaning, you can get off in Japan and your partner can control what’s going on in your masturbation sesh from South Africa. It’s a total must-have for long-distance relationships.

Verge by We-Vibe Courtesy of We-Vibe