Not all relationships are made out to be equal. All across the world, there are thousands upon thousands of couples that don’t necessarily get the satisfaction of seeing one another all the time. Due to how easy it is to communicate over the phone and the internet, couples don’t need to see each other face to face anymore in order to keep up with their partners. We live in a modern day and age where physicality isn’t always necessary. It’s still essential nonetheless to keep in mind that both touch and sex are two key components to a healthy relationship, so it’s important for long-distance couples to find loopholes when they can’t get down and dirty in person. What’s the best way to spice up a technologically-driven relationship in which your partner lives far, far away, you may ask? Sex gifts for long-distance relationships.
Sex gifts are a gamechanger in long-distance relationships. Using sex toys and gifts during an over-the-phone playtime sesh with your partner can enhance eroticism and passion through the phone tremendously. There are so many different sex gifts for long-distance relationships that there are a number of ways to even do it. Whether you’re turning a sexy card game into something more on Zoom, snapping sexy photos wearing little to nothing in a public bathroom or masturbating using matchmaking toys over the phone, you and your partner have free rein to pick your poison and spice up your long-distance sex life the way that suits the two of you best.
Many of these Bluetooth sex toys actually have a name — teledildonics are new-age sex toys that allow your partner to remotely control the sexual experience, no matter where they are in the world. In the past, Skype sex and dirty texts reigned. But today, thanks to teledildonics, being in a long-distance relationship doesn’t mean that you have to lose intimate touch with your partner.
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Because long-distance relationships are only growing and now that regular-distance relationships are turning more “long-distance” out of fear of spreading the coronavirus, buying sex gifts for long-distance relationships has more pertinence than ever. Whether you’re gifting for a birthday, anniversary, a holiday or simply at random, here are the best sexy gifts for long-distance relationships in 2022. Trust us, you’re not going to be disappointed.
1. We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition App Controlled Couples Kit
BEST OVERALL
Why should one of you have all the fun while the other one simply watches? Another amazing option for couples, your Zoom date night will be completely elevated by this We-Vibe Date Night Special Edition App-Controlled kit for couples. Complete with We-Vibe’s popular Nova 2 rabbit vibrator and the stretchy Pivot vibrating penis ring, these toys can be used with the matching We-Vibe app for an unforgettable night where both of you are fully satisfied.
2. NexiGo N960E Webcam
RUNNER UP
Honestly, your computer’s camera is not doing those long-distance sexy nights justice. While it’s not an actual Bluetooth sex toy, a high-definition webcam is one of the top picks when it comes to sex gifts for long-distance couples because it turns that coveted initial time together into a more realistic experience rather than a glitchy and fuzzy one. With this under $100 Nexigo webcam, you’ll get adjustable brightness, multiple light modes and a webcam view that’s actually flattering thanks to the included ring light.
3. Virtual Reality Headset
MOST INTERACTIVE PICK
Ready to enter the world of VR sex? While many use VR headsets to watch or experience porn in a more immersive way, the interactive virtual reality media allows the user to interact with another real or fictional person via tech devices, making this ideal for long-distance couples. This media can be used with Bluetooth sex toys and partners can even play VR porn games where users can role-play and experiment with sub/dom roles. It can also provide a virtual space where you two “meet” which can make for intimate dates without sex as well. Kiiroo is one of the best options for interactive VR sex, this is a great intro. If you want to level up, consider a pricier model like the Meta Quest 2, which is the best VR headset on the market.
4. Lelo Tiani Harmony Couples Massager
MOST RELIABLE
Although most of the teledildonic sex toys out there do make fantastic sex gifts for long-distance couples, when Bluetooth doesn’t work, it can really kill the mood. Lelo is one of the most reliable, premium quality sex toy brands out there, and they’ve recently released the Tiani Harmony, which provides simultaneous clitoris and g-spot stimulation, resulting in decadent blended orgasms. You can always rely on Lelo for gorgeous elegant toys that always deliver performance-wise.
5. We-Vibe Moxie App and Remote Controlled Wearable Clitoral Panty Vibrator
BEST WEARABLE PICK FOR WOMEN
If you have a female partner that’s into public play, consider We-Vibe’s Moxie, which is the perfect partner to the brand’s Bond stimulator for men, which we’ll cover below. This clitoral panty vibrator is slipped inside the underwear, providing waves of bliss while a partner can control that pleasure from afar with the We-Vibe app. Held in place magnetically by a clip for more precise stimulation, this rumbly yet silent toy can be used with any underwear.
6. We-Vibe Bond Remote Vibrating Penis Ring
BEST WEARABLE PICK FOR MEN
Want to have some secret fun in public? Go to a restaurant or any other public space by yourself wearing the We-Vibe Bond ring for decadent vibrations that your partner can control from anywhere. If you like the idea of getting frisky in public and having your partner tease you from anywhere, the Bond goes around both the shaft and the testicles. The toy also comes with an extender piece to accommodate larger penises. Per our review, we love the soft silicone and rumbly yet slightly buzzy sensation.
7. Cowgirl Sex Machine
BEST SPLURGE
The ultimate addition to your webcam party, the Cowgirl lets anybody put on a show for their partner. It’s also the most realistic when it comes to mimicking partnered sex – forward or reverse. The person receiving this gift will experience the ride of a lifetime once they climb on the famous Cowgirl sex machine with its hand-crafted vegan leather saddle. A sleek, modern and more comfortable version of the old-school Sybian, this machine has handles attached for easy transportation. The best part? It’s VR compatible and can be made interactive with advanced FeelConnect remote technology.
8. Lovense Calor Warming App Controlled Male Masturbator
BEST MALE MASTURBATOR
If anal play isn’t your thing, take things to a whole other level with your partner using the Lovense Calor App Control Male Masturbator. Providing the heat of a human touch and depth control (the deeper you penetrate, the more intense the vibrations get), this multi-talented and high-tech sleeve can provide an unparalleled sensation. It can be connected via smartphone to your lover’s toy, and buyers love that it features a squeezable grip, allowing you to mix up the pressure. Like Lovense’s other products, it can be synced with music.
9. We-Vibe Melt App Controlled Rechargeable Clitoral Stimulator
BEST SUCTION TOY
The Melt is one of the best clitoral stimulators that feels just like oral sex and makes an incredible gift for female partners – especially those who don’t like the intense vibrations of a traditional vibrator. It’s waterproof, making for a steamy playtime session. The simple controls that are strategically placed allow her to focus on the pleasure rather than fumbling with hard-to-reach buttons. This toy is commonly used for edging, which is a fun way for partners afar to bring each other to the edge multiple times, which can cause a more intense orgasm.
10. Lovense Edge 2 App Controlled Rechargeable Prostate Massager
BEST PROSTATE MASSAGER
One of the most popular prostate massager sex toys for long-distance couples, the Lovense Edge 2 provides a luxurious experience for partners with its hands-free distance-control technology. With a curved, bulbous tip for jaw-dropping sensations, this toy can be perfectly contoured to your body and controlled by a partner for unlimited shared play. Pair the vibes with music or explore the different patterns and speeds to replace that feeling of missing your partner with an earth-shattering orgasm.
11. Svakom Vick Neo Massager
RUNNER UP PROSTATE MASSAGER
Looking for some delicious prostate play to bring you closer together? This under $100 pick from popular app-controlled sex toy brands Svakom has several five-star reviews you can browse through at Lovers, with one buyer calling it the “perfect length.” With a sleek look, its pivoting base allows for 360-degree stimulation, and it can also be inserted by female partners. A multifunctional and beginner-friendly toy that can create an amazing interactive experience between long-distance partners.
12. Lovense Hyphy App-Controlled Dual-End High-Frequency Clitoral Vibrator
BEST PIN-POINT CLIT VIBE
If your partner prefers more concentrated clitoral stimulation, this high-frequency clitoral vibrator can provide some seriously intense and blissful sensations. It also has a dual end (and dual motors) which can be inserted for G-spot stimulation. This toy comes with three different attachments to change the sensation, and the tongue attachment is a sure crowd pleaser. The Hyphy is compatible with the Lovense Remote App. It can even be synced to your favorite music, so put on your lover’s favorite song and get to playing.
13. Lumen Anal Plug by OhMiBod
BEST BUTT PLUG
If your sexual repertoire with bae includes anal play, you’ll love this app-controlled, Kiiroo-compatible butt plug from one of the leading brands in teledildonics. The Lumen features a velvety, cushioned silicone with ridges, while an LED light provides visual feedback in the form of an illuminated diamond. One of the best ways to experience synchronized sensations, this is one of the best sex toys for long-distance couples who don’t want a clitoral stimulator.
14. OhMiBod Fuse and Keon Combo Couples Set
BEST COUPLES SET
One of the most innovative sets for couples in providing simultaneous ecstasy from afar, the Bluetooth-enabled Fuse and Keon couples set by OhMiBod is the ultimate shared experience. This is one of the only sets for couples that includes a Fleshlight-style masturbation sleeve rather than a ring or prostate massage, so if that’s your particular brand of pleasure, this set is a must. Although it’s slightly expensive for a set of toys, strokers are often upward of $150 on their own, and this is a truly high-quality one.
15. Mystery Vibe Crescendo 2 Flexible Vibrator
BEST BENDABLE VIBRATOR
This updated version of the Crescendo is one of the only flexible, bendable vibrators, making it one of the best sex toys for long-distance couples. It’s waterproof, so you can film yourself playing in the bath, and it provides infinite toys in one with its malleable shape that lets you stimulate the G-spot, P-spot or Clit. You or your partner can pre-program custom vibration patterns using the matching MysteryVibe app. Then, when you’re ready to use it, you can use the custom vibe pattern your partner programmed.
16. OhMiBod Esca 2
MOST UNIQUE
One of the only toys that provide visual feedback to partners, this next-gen interactive wearable massager can be controlled from across the world, making it a top contender on our roundup of sex gifts for long-distance couples. Complete with a Bluetooth-enabled app for long-distance play, this toy features illuminating LED lights that sync to the vibrations, providing visual feedback. Kiiroo products are also compatible with VR porn, so get on buying that headset ASAP.
17. Do You Come Here Often? Roleplay Book
BEST FOR ROLEPLAY
Sites like Lovehoney, Babeland and Amazon have tons of couples’ role play outfits. Whether you’re looking to play naughty nurse and patient or teacher and student, you’ll never run out of ideas with this Lovehoney Do you Come Here Often? Roleplay book. We could suggest a specific role-play look, but everyone has a different preference and exploring different fantasies is what makes it so fun, making this one of the best sex gifts for long-distance couples. Stock up on a few outfits according to whatever fantasies you and your partner have.
18. Kiiroo Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set
RUNNER UP COUPLES SET
We’re starting off strong, ladies, gents and everyone in between. The Kiiroo Onyx+ Pearl2 Couples Set is potentially the best way to spice up your long-distance love life. This kit comes with two different toys, the Onyx+, which is a masturbator made for male genitals and the Pearl2, which is a masturbator made for female genitals. The Onyx+ is insane — it’s designed for total discretion and can reach up to a wild 140 strokes per minute. It works in an up and down motion to simulate sex to the penis and feels like you’re inside an actual body. The Pearl2 is a chill-giving, advanced G-spot vibrator that will have toes curling and eyes rolling back in minutes. How is this for couples? We’re glad you asked. All you have to do is connect the two in the toys’ FeelConnect app and you’ll have full control over the other’s masturbator from miles and miles away. With this set, it’s like your partner is with you even when they’re not.
19. My Daily Mantra Send Nudes Gift Box
BEST GIFT BOX
While it isn’t necessarily sexual in nature, this gift box is kind of a tit-for-tat kinda gift. You or your partner sends the gift and the other sends nudes as a bit of a thank you. You know, normal things. This box is filled with the utmost perfect picks for the best at-home spa day you can think of. It includes a pyramid natural stone to help bring peace, unity and calmness, a 100% all-natural soy candle of your choice, a boho mantra matchbox, vanilla mint lip balm, whipped body butter, artisan soap and a homemade bath bomb crafted with floral filling. The box is created with the intention of love and will add a sultry, sexy vibe to their next me-day.
20. Lingerie
MOST CLASSIC
Lingerie doesn’t only have to be for intimate two-person moments in the bedroom. New York City-based gymnast Roni Nichols says it best herself, “I buy a bunch of lingerie so I can send my boyfriend in Chicago pictures and videos of myself throughout the day”, proving lingerie has a space in long-distance relationships tremendously. “I’ve purchased even more lingerie over quarantine,” she continues, “I like to have something that excites him and makes him want to see it in person — I’ve even bought a couple pairs of sexy underwear for him, too”.
There are so many places nowadays to get sexy underwear for men, women and everyone in between. Right now, we’re loving HisRoom and HerRoom for their massive selection, but for dudes especially, International Jock should absolutely be on your radar.
21. Lovense Lush 3 App Controlled Rechargeable Love Egg Vibrator
BEST FOR ANYWHERE
Want to get really, really spicy? Look no further than the LOVENSE Lush 3 App- Controlled Vibrator. This bliss-inducing device is perfect for any long-distance couple no matter your gender identity or sexuality. Have your partner wear this at home or throughout the day and you can have full access to it. Turn it on when they’re out to dinner with their friends, have it pulse as they’re doing errands, make it go absolutely berzerk on the subway — you get to choose. This device can be used both vaginally and anally, so it has anybody’s name written all over it.
22. OUR MOMENTS Sexting: 100 Messages to Text to Your Partner
BEST FOR SEXTING
Even if you aren’t in a long-distance relationship, there’s a good shot you and your partner sext from time to time. In our technologically driven world, it just comes with the territory. This sexy game is a great gift to snag your long-distance partner in order to spice up your online sex life. It will introduce you both to brand new spicy conversation starters and fillers you otherwise might not have thought up yourself. Some might make you a bit red in the face, but all in all, this is a totally worth-it buy for any couple miles apart.
23. We-Vibe Nova 2
BEST FOR WOMEN
The We-Vibe Nova 2 will change the way you orgasm, and that’s a fact. Anything in a long-distance relationship that has a vagina needs to experience the wild times provided by this adjustable, one-size-fits-all device. Hit your G-spot each and every time with ease and the device will completely flex with your moments, making masturbation unbearably good. It’s also completely waterproof and made with body-safe silicone. How does it work in LDRs? Well, the We-Vibe Nova 2 can be connected to the free We-Connect app where you have the ability to share control of the device from anyone, anywhere. You can even play together with your partner by connecting with their We-Vibe products.
24. Verge by We-Vibe
BEST FOR MEN
Anyone with a penis will appreciate the powerful vibrations from the Verge, also provided by We-Vibe. This device works as a cock ring to shake things up a little and massage the prostate area as you masturbate. It’s totally comfortable and has the ability to fit most members. Because it’s 100% waterproof, it’s easy to enjoy just about anywhere and effortless to clean once playtime is over. Just like our prior pick, you can connect this to the We-Connect app and play with your partner’s toy from miles away. Meaning, you can get off in Japan and your partner can control what’s going on in your masturbation sesh from South Africa. It’s a total must-have for long-distance relationships.